Professional life varies, and even those who are very aware of their competencies and try to effectively manage their career "sometimes fall overboard" (it happens to the best).
Some quickly move on from this situation, trying to find interesting work, while others need a bit more time to "get back on their feet." This is understandable, as losing a job is one of the most stressful situations in adult life. Regardless of the group, sooner or later, both become participants in selection/recruitment processes. These processes are usually more painful for unemployed individuals, so I recommend the rule – "look for a job while you're employed." However, not everything in life is perfect.
The longer, the worse...
The longer we look for a job while being effectively unemployed, the quicker the level of stress and our frustration rises. For us, finding a new job is a priority, and at the same time, we forget that our "whole world" is not "the whole world for others." We seem to overlook the fact that for potential employers, finding a new employee is important. However, this may not be their priority, or they may assume from the start that the process could take several weeks or months. Recruitment processes seem to "drag on forever," and the feedback we receive is virtually none. Long-term unsuccessful job searching can damage our nervous system, and after some time, we simply stop believing in ourselves and our abilities.
I often hear from individual clients who have been out of work for a long time that they do not receive job offers because: someone else was hired "through connections," they are too young/old, have the wrong gender, an inappropriate photo in their CV, inappropriate appearance, there was no so-called "chemistry" during the recruitment interview.
What can you influence, and what can't you?
Before you completely succumb to sadness and helplessness, analyze the reasons why you are not receiving job proposals. Your candidacy can be rejected at several stages – before and after the recruitment interview, but there may also be several other reasons, of which you may not be aware.
I encourage you to read the following points.
Internal factors – those you can influence:
You don't receive a job offer because:
External factors – those you can't influence:
You don't receive a job offer because:
The points above clearly show that you do not have control over everything. However, I do not want to encourage readers to play the so-called "wooden leg," attributing their failures exclusively to external factors. I want to highlight the complexity of recruitment processes and, consequently, note that they consume a lot of time (sometimes unimaginably so). Therefore, it is worth increasing your chances and not ceasing in efforts to find a new position, even if you are participating in several recruitment processes simultaneously.
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Agnieszka Piątkowska